December 2008 - Net Worth Update and Personal Finance Status
Published 12/20/08 (Modified 3/9/11)By MoneyBlueBook
Honestly, I'm starting to regret posting my financial numbers online for all to see. It's one thing for anonymous strangers or random online readers to be intimately aware of my current financial net worth, but it's another mild hassle altogether when friends or family know where I stand financially at all times. It just injects a bit of awkwardness into my personal and social relationships I feel.
Just a few days ago my brother asked me to contribute to his law school tuition fund. He's currently working full time and juggling evening law school classes. His federal government office pays for the majority of his law school tuition expenses, but there is still a little bit leftover that he needs to cover out of pocket. I'm sure his awareness of my current financial state via my personal finance blog at Money Blue Book makes it easier for him to feel comfortable approaching me for money knowing that I probably have the means to provide some measure of financial support. I doubt he would have felt as comfortable asking me for a handout or a loan if he were not acutely aware of the specifics of my monthly cash flow or personal balance sheet.
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